Young Adult Prayer Challenge Day 13

Today, is probably the day of the prayer challenge that has impacted me the most.  I told everyone in the beginning, I went through this with our staff in October/November of last year. The whole thing was really good, and I learned so much from it. I could have spent more time on each day to pull everything from it, but today’s was by far the most life changing for me.

Here’s the thought: Prayer can do anything God can do.

God can do anything, and if I pray in His will, He will answer – so my prayer can do anything.

I know most of us would acknowledge God can do anything. We’ve been taught from a young age about His miracles and His power, but do we really believe He can anything? And, if I believe He can do anything, then my lack of prayer must say I don’t want Him to do things in my life. It says I don’t want to reach lost people, I don’t want to see miracles, I don’t want to see lives changed, I don’t want to see marriages restored, and I don’t want to feel God’s presence with me today. If I believe that God can do anything, then I must believe that prayer can do the same.

The story of D L Moody given in today’s reading is powerful.  What if God did the things in you or I He did with Moody? What would the world around me look like?

PWG

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Young Adults Prayer Challenge Day 12

Day 12 brings us to the place of considering praying scripture as a part of our prayer life. The thought is pretty simple – If I want God to lead our conversations, then shouldn’t I let Him start the conversations. The only way I can do that is to pray scripture. It’s His Word.

The beautiful thing about using scripture in your prayers is that scripture always leads you to God. Scripture leads you to His will, His thoughts, and His heart. We learn about Him every time we read scripture, and learning about Him leads me to pray more like I should.

Praying scripture does require time. You won’t pray with an open Bible as you’re driving to work or school, but when you spend your time reading and praying every day, it’s right there for you.

PWG

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Young Adult Prayer Challenge Day 11

It’s day 11 of our prayer challenge, and I hope you are spending more time alone with God than you have before this challenge.

Today, the challenge is to receive and use the peace of God in your life. Peace is very valuable, but very difficult to find. In fact, finding it apart from God is impossible! But with Him, it is there whenever you need it (John 14:27)

I’m not sure what each of you individually is going through, but I know one of the biggest challenges we face is to keep our heads up and trust God when the world around us is going crazy! I struggle with this just like you do. I want to fuss and complain when things don’t go my way. I look for things in this world to satisfy me, when I know God is the only thing that can give me fulfillment. I want everyone and everything in my life to get along and work out perfectly. I know none of this works, but I spend a ton of time and energy trying to figure it out.

What is going crazy in your world today? What things are you trying to fill in the gaps with? God has the peace we need to hold our head high, give grace and mercy to those who need it, and keep moving. He loves us and wants the best for us, even when the storm around us rages. TRUST and REST in Him today, no matter what the world tells you to do.

PWG

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Young Adults Prayer Challenge Day 10

It’s hard to believe we are 1/2 way through our 21 days, but remember, this is just the beginning!

If you’re feeling really behind because you haven’t read the book everyday, please don’t be discouraged.  Take time to read the NEXT day for you, and go back to look at the blog. We want you to read something and pray every day – not to feel guilty and not do it.

The opening quote today got me right off the bat:  “you can only go as far FOR God as you have time WITH God.”

The idea is simple – I can only go as far for God as I spend time with Him.  In other words, if I’m going to build a tall building for the world to see, then I better have a deep and wide foundation to support what others can see.  It’s the iceberg principle – you see 1/3 of it, but the part you don’t see is what keeps it upright and moving with the current.

The principle for us is HUGE – there are no shortcuts in your walk with Jesus.  If you want to be used by Him and for His glory, then you have to do the hard part – spend time with Him. How much He can use you is directly proportional to how much time you spend with Him.  AND how serious you are about that time.

I love you all, and know that I am struggling through and being convicted by this too. I need Him more.  I need to focus on building His kingdom and not mine.  I fall short. I am ashamed and feel guilty more days than not, but the TRUTH is, He loves me and wants to continue making me into His masterpiece.

PWG

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The butterfly effect

I know I’ve already posted today about our prayer challenge, but J Bailey sent me this article that I want to share with you.  If you ever have any doubt that you matter or how much you matter, then keep reading.

 

In 1963, Edward Lorenz presented a hypothesis to the New York Academy of Science. His theory, stated simply, was that:

A butterfly could flap its wings and set molecules of air in motion, which would move other molecules of air, in turn moving more molecules of air – eventually capable of starting a hurricane on the other side of the planet.

Lorenz and his ideas were literally laughed out of the conference. What he had proposed was ridiculous. It was preposterous. But it was fascinating!

Therefore, because of the ideas charm and intrigue, the so-called “butterfly effect” became a staple of science fiction, remaining for decades a combination of myth and legend spread only by comic books and bad movies.

So imagine the scientific community’s shock and surprise when, more than 30 years after the possibility was introduced, physics professors working from colleges and universities worldwide came to the conclusion that the butterfly effect was authentic, accurate and viable.

Soon after, it was accorded the status of a “law.” Now known as The Law of Sensitive Dependence Upon Initial Conditions, this principle has proven to be a force encompassing more than mere butterfly wings. Science has shown the butterfly effect to engage with the first movement of any form of matter – including people.

On Friday, April 2, 2004, ABC News honored a man who, at that time, was 91 years old. The news program was running a regular segment called “Person of the Week.” Usually the honoree’s accomplishments are listed in advance and by the time the name is announced, most folks have already guessed the identity of that week’s recipient. In this instance, however, the pronouncement left many viewers puzzled.

“And so…our Person of the Week is…” the anchorman finally said, “Norman Borlaug!”

One can only imagine the frowns. Who? Who did he say? Norman…what was the last name?

Yet, despite our unfamiliarity, Norman Borlaug is a man who is personally responsible for drastically and dramatically changing the world in which we live. You see, in the early 1940s, Norman Borlaug hybridized high-yield, disease-resistant corn and wheat for arid climates. From the dust bowl of Western Africa to our own desert Southwest, from South and Central America to the plains of Siberia, across Europe and Asia, Borlaug’s specific seed product flourished and regenerated where no seed had ever thrived before. Through the years, it has now been calculated that Norman Borlaug’s work saved more than two billion lives from famine.

Actually, it was never reported, but the anchorman was misinformed. It was not Norman Borlaug who saved the two billion people, though very few caught the mistake. It was Henry Wallace.

Henry Wallace was the Vice President of the United States under Franklin Roosevelt. Over his four terms, Roosevelt had three different Vice Presidents and the second man to serve was Henry Wallace.

Wallace was the former Secretary of Agriculture who, after his one term as Vice President, was dumped from the ticket in favor of Truman. While Wallace was Vice President, however, he used the power of that office to create a station in Mexico whose sole purpose was to hybridize corn and wheat for arid climates. He hired a young man named Norman Borlaug to run it.

So Norman Borlaug won the Nobel Prize. And Norman Borlaug was awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom. But considering the connection, it was really Henry Wallace that saved two billion people!

Or was it George Washington Carver? You remember Carver, don’t you? The peanut?
But here’s something that very few people know: When Carver was 19 years old and a student at Iowa State University, he had a Dairy Sciences professor who, on Saturday and Sunday afternoons, would allow his six-year-old boy to go on “botanical expeditions” with the brilliant student.

It was George Washington Carver who took that boy and instilled in him a love for plants and a vision for what they could do for humanity. It was George Washington Carver who pointed six-year-old Henry Wallace’s life in a specific direction – long before he ever became Vice President of the United States.

It’s amazing to contemplate, isn’t it?

George Washington Carver flapping his butterfly wings with the peanut. There are currently 266 things he developed from the peanut that we still use today. He flapped his wings with the sweet potato. There are 88 things Carver originated from the sweet potato that we still use today. And while no one was even looking, George Washington Carver flapped his wings a couple of times with a six-year-old boy. And just happened to save the lives of more than two billion people…and counting.

So maybe it should have been George Washington Carver – Person of the Week! Or the farmer from Diamond, Missouri?

His name was Moses and he lived in a slave state, but he didn’t believe in slavery. This made him a target for psychopaths like Quantrill’s Raiders who terrorized the area by destroying property by burning and killing. And sure enough, one cold January night, Quantrill’s Raiders rode through Moses’ farm. The outlaws burned the barn, shot several people, and dragged off a woman named Mary Washington who refused to let go of her infant son, George.

Now, Mary Washington was a friend of Moses’ wife, Susan. Though distraught, Susan promptly set to work writing messages and contacting nearby farms. She got word through neighbors and towns and two days later managed to secure a meeting for Moses with the bandits.

Susan looked on anxiously as her husband rode off on a black horse. His destination was a crossroad in Kansas several hours to the north. There, at the appointed time, in the middle of the night, Moses met up with four of Quantrill’s Raiders. They were on horseback, carrying torches, and had flour sacks tied over their heads with holes cut out for their eyes. There, the farmer traded the only horse they had left on their farm for what the outlaws threw him in a dirty burlap bag.

As the bandits thundered off on their horses, Moses fell to his knees and there, alone on that dark winter night, the farmer pulled from the bag a cold, naked, almost-dead baby boy. Quickly he jerked open his own coat and his shirt and placed the child next to his skin. Covering him with his own clothes and relying on the warmth from his own body, the man turned and walked that baby home.

Moses walked through the night and into the next morning to get the child to Susan. There, they committed to that tiny human being – and to each other – that they would care for him. They promised the boy an education to honor his mother, Mary, who they knew was already dead. That night, they gave the baby their own name…and that is how Moses and Susan Carver came to raise that little baby, George Washington.

So when you think about it, maybe it was the farmer from Diamond, Missouri, who saved the two billion people. Or was it his wife who was responsible? Certainly it was Susan who organized the effort – it was she who demanded immediate action.

Unless…

Is there an ending to this story? Exactly who was it that saved the two billion lives? Is there a specific person to whom we could point? How many lives would we need to examine in order to determine whose action saved two billion people – a number that continues to increase every minute?

And how far forward would we need to go in your life to show the difference you make?

There are generations yet unborn whose very lives will be shifted and shaped by the moves you make and the actions you take today. And tomorrow. And the next day. And the next.

Every single thing you do matters.

You have been created as one of a kind. On the planet Earth, there has never been one like you and there never will be again. Your spirit, your thoughts and feelings, your ability to reason and act all exist in no one else. The rarities that make you special are no mere accident or quirk of fate. You have been created in order that you might make a difference.

You have within you the power to change the world.

Know that your actions cannot be hoarded, saved for later, or used selectively. By your hand, millions – billions – of lives will be altered, caught up in a chain of events begun by you this day. The very beating of your heart has meaning and purpose. Your actions have value far greater than silver or gold.

 

You matter and God wants to do amazing things with your life – if you’ll let Him

PWG

Marriage and Families Discipleship Class Week 2

I hope you felt week 2 was beneficial and strengthening to you and your family!

Here is the outline of what we covered:

Session 2:

4 types of communication in marriage

  1. Informal Conversations
  2. Administrative meetings
  3. Challenges
  4. Life-giving conversations

Engage in all communication with GRACE

Video: You can watch it on RightNow Media – if you don’t have an account, then email me and I’ll help you set it up or go to our website homepage and click on the RightNow Media box.

7 types of Negativity that make things worse: from The Kindness Challenge by Shaunti Feldhahn

    1. “This Will Be Hard”
    2. “Exasperation, Irritation, and Pointing Out Mistakes”
    3. Sarcasm
    4. Grumble, Grumble
    5. “You Hurt Me, I Hurt You”
    6. Suspicion
    7. Catastrophizing

How to resolve problems biblically:

  • Define the problem and stick to the issue. Clearly define the issue and stay on topic during the discussion. Conflict deteriorates when the issue that started the conflict gets lost in angry words, past issues, or hurts tossed into the mix.
  • Pursue purity of heart. “Take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye” (Matt. 7:5 NASB). Before approaching others regarding their faults and shortcomings, prayerfully face up to your own. Confess any way you might have contributed to the problem.
  • Plan a time for the discussion. Plan a time to meet with the other person when you are both rested and likely to respond in love to the other person’s concerns. When you are tired, stressed, and distracted with other responsibilities, things rarely will go well.
  • Affirm the Relationship. Affirm the relationship before clearly defining the problem. For example, “Our relationship is important to me. But when you don’t return my calls, I feel rejected and unimportant.” Avoid blaming the other person and saying,

 

Financial discussion 

Give out budget worksheets – homework – each person fill out what they think it is, then come together and compare and fill out final copy

I love you all and hope you have an amazing week!

PWG

Young Adult Prayer Challenge Day 9

Day 9 challenges us with a thought – Do you see prayer as a weapon?

When you pray, do you believe it changes things you can’t change on your own? Does it impact you so you can impact others?

Even as believers in Jesus Christ, we see ourselves as captives sometimes. We are in bondage to thoughts, sins, relationships, our past, and so much more. 2 Corinthians 10:4-5 says the weapons we have at our disposal can TEAR DOWN ANY STRONGHOLD in our lives. Anything that is holding us back or keeping us from being the person God knows we can be. Prayer is one of those weapons – the primary one of those weapons!

Prayer can help you overcome secret sin, negative thoughts, a view of yourself that isn’t godly, inability to love someone who isn’t very lovable, and more. Use this weapon today. Pray for God to use you in an incredible way in someone’s life. Pray that God will show you the next step to take. Pray for strongholds in your life to be torn down and destroyed.

He wants you to use this weapon. He wouldn’t have given it to us if He didn’t want us to use it.

It’s demo day!

PWG

 

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Young Adult Prayer Challenge Day 8

Read Acts 12:1-5 again – it is written for you in the opening of today’s devotion. The last phrase is “but earnest prayer for him was made to God by the church.”

The devotion analyzes each word in that phrase. The pieces of that statement are so important! The church had a reason to be scared, but instead they chose to act. They didn’t act on their own, but they petitioned the One who could actually change the situation. The specifics of the phrase are important too. They made the petition earnestly. They made it to God. They got everyone involved.

That’s the purpose of these 21 days. We want you to get used to praying earnestly, to God, and us doing it together. Please take some time today to get involved in this movement. You may not see an instant miracle like the church in Acts 12 did, but you WILL be encouraged and your faith will be strengthened because you pray the same things other people are praying.

Notice that day 8 asks you to diligently pray for our church staff! We need it, and I can tell you with 100% certainty, we want you to pray for us. So thank you for praying.

PWG

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Young Adult Prayer Challenge Day 7

Day 7 deals with where and when we pray. I can honestly say my car is my prayer closet most of the time. If you live in a house like ours, going to the bathroom without an audience is a challenge. So praying in a quiet, secret place seems unmanageable most days, but my car isn’t very cool so no one really wants to be in it with me anyway. It’s perfect!

God doesn’t really care where the place is, but He wants you to have one. He is intentional about meeting with you so He wants you to be just as intentional about meeting with Him. I can’t tell you where you should meet with Him, but find somewhere you can get alone with Him.

The question of when is simple too. You pray whenever you think you need to.  When He wakes you up in the middle of the night, when you’re driving, when you’re at work, when you’re about to eat a meal, when you’re going to bed. He will talk with you anytime, but be careful not to push Him to outskirts of your life.  He is too important.

Find a where, and ask Him to let you know when.

PWG

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Young Adults Prayer Challenge Day 6

Day 6 is pretty intense because it deals with how selfish most of our prayers are.  Ouch! You mean I can be selfish and pray to the Almighty God at the same time – yep! And the truth is, we’re really good at it.

You may have prayed for something before – sincerely and honestly prayed. You didn’t see the answer you wanted, and you wondered where you went wrong.  The answer to this is really very simple. It wasn’t God ignoring you or your request. God will answer you, but it is up to Him HOW He answers. He may have told you no, or even told you to wait.

Most of the time when we pray and ask for something, we expect God to give us a YES. We want Him to see the world and our current situation the way we see it.  We expect Him to act like we would act if we were all powerful. But God is consistent – He says yes to EVERYTHING that will bring Him glory. He doesn’t want us to be miserable, unless my misery brings Him glory, and is ultimately for my good.

God wants to and will meet my needs when I pray for things that are aligned with His will. We pray so narrowly most of the time, but God wants to act in ways we never even scratch when we pray for our exam, our project at work, and our relationship. It’s not that God doesn’t care about those things – He absolutely cares about them because you care about them, but they aren’t His top priority. His top priority is to see people come to Him, and to use you in His mission for this world.

He is fully capable and willing to bless us in ways beyond our requests, but we are to seek Him FIRST.

PWG

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